Welcome to the Healing the Hoarder in Me Series. Today we’re talking all about the ever-overwhelming inbox. The digital ball and chain….e-mail.
E-mail can give us amazing notes of encouragement, great news and business opportunities. At the same time this digital hole can bring junk, temptation and the feeling that we’re trapped in a box with a to-do list that doesn’t end.
I “archive” too many emails. I “star” things I want to go back to and I keep deleting the same daily newsletters. What a waste of time.
Let’s stop that now. Together.
See, this is what I’ve started with….
If you haven’t opened the last 2 newsletters from a certain company, just decide they’re gone. Instead of hitting delete for the 20th time, click a few more times and unsubscribe. You won’t have to deal with it anymore.
A note on “spam” - did you know that if you hit the “spam” button to get rid of things it actually reports the sender as “spam” even if you signed up for it. It can negatively affect ratings. To be kind to businesses either don’t sign up in the first place or “unsubscribe” as soon as your interests have changed.
In-Box
Star/Highlight - use this feature lightly. Don’t star a million items, mark them unread to not return for days. This is how emails get lost. If you star or highlight 50 items it loses it’s ability to grab your attention and remind you of the things that really matter.
Respond Right Away - get it out of your inbox and be done with it. Make sure your email answers all questions in a clear and concise manner. You don’t want to be emailing back and forth wasting time. This is one reason to respond to people on your computer rather than your phone. Less distractions and much faster.
Drafts - if it’s more than 2 weeks old, it’s gone. If not, finish the email and be done with it.
Make a Date - Stop Refreshing!
What if the Postal Service delivered at random times throughout the day. Would you walk out to your mailbox 50 times to see if anything was delivered? How efficient would you be during the day? Well, the same thing goes for your email. Stop “refreshing” to see if you have mail. Make a date or two throughout the day to check your email. Go through the list above by responding right away, filing and then deleting or archiving.
If you have a difficult time stopping yourself from clicking over, then close out the tab in your browser or take it one step further and sign out. It will be a pain to sign in every time and limit you from checking so much.
Phone Settings
I have a super Type A personality so my inbox is constantly at (0) because I forever move things around. I have about a billion folders and tags in my Gmail. One day my boyfriend happened to look over my shoulder while on the computer and says “What’s with all those crazy colors in your inbox??” lol!
I have 2115 emails in my inbox. Yeah, crazy.
some though i kept on purpose like the ones Ben would send me when we were dating!